Don’t Make it Worse!

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Eighth, consider how much more pain is brought on us by the anger and vexation caused by such acts than by the acts themselves, at which we are angry and vexed. Marcus Aurelius Meditations Chapter 11

Events happen.  Our impressions determine how good or bad they are, right?  If this be true, then certainly our reaction, or worse our over-reaction to something that disturbs us cannot possibly make it better. Continue reading

Less Words, More Listening

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“Be for the most part silent, or speak merely what is necessary, and in few words.”  Epictetus Enchiridion

I want to help.  I want to give advice.  After all, I have a lot of knowledge if people would just listen to me.  Also, I am full of helpful advice if people would just listen to me.  The long and short of it all is I do a lot of talking.  I have the gift of gab, and I have a lot of helpful things to say.  Except when I don’t. Continue reading